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The male within the female, shown as a man in a woman's dreams.
Physically a woman is predominantly female, but also has a
clitoris and produces some male hormones. Psychologically, we may
only express part of our potential in everyday life. In a woman,
the more physically dynamic, intellectual and socially challenging
side of herself such as assertiveness and taking charge of
situations may be given less expression. Apart from this some
features, such as innovation and creative rational thought, may be
held in latency. Even if this is not true for the modern woman,
there are features of her full potential that are held as
secondary or latent characteristics, and are depicted by the male
in female dreams.
In general we can say the man in a woman's dreams represents the
woman's mental and social power, her ability to act creatively in
'the world'. It also holds in it an expression of her complex of
feelings about men, gained as experience mostly from her
relationship with - or lack of relationship with - her father. The
animus is also a synthesis of all her male contacts. So the whole
realm of her experience of the male can be represented by the man
in her dream, and is accessible through the image. Femaleness or
maleness must not be confused with personality. The conscious
personality is a very flexible and shapeshifting thing. It can be
male or female in quality no matter what the body gender. But in
dreams, the male is the facet of dynamic action that projects into
the world of this shapeshifting personality.
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The Male in the Female -
Gustav Klimt |
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The animus can be depicted in a dream by an heroic or
spiritual male figure, by her brother or father, a giant, a
lion or bull. The animus can be wonderfully creative or
powerfully destructive, depending upon ones relationship with
it. Cultural symbols one may use are of leader figures from
either national or religious backgrounds; a male dwarf; a
medicine man such as a shaman, or a man the woman is marrying.
The negative aspect of the animus may show as the seducer, the
man who imprisons or leads her into danger or tortures her.
The positive animus shows as the man who solves problems,
shows how things work, exhibits love despite trials, and is
the deliverer from death. P. W. Martin says that more than
anything else the animus figure has two characteristic marks:
energy and ambivalence.
Marie von Franz says of the animus that it often takes the
form of a 'sacred conviction' in a woman rather than erotic
fantasies. When a woman has such an animus impulse working in
her she may be recognised by the way she preaches her
particular 'sacred conviction' in a loud and sometimes
masculinised voice. She may even impose such beliefs on others
in 'brutal emotional scenes'. Such a woman may be at times
obstinate, cold and inaccessible. An example of a woman with
such a sacred conviction is Joan of Arc. While Bluebeard is an
example of a negative animus figure.
These convictions a woman may hold are usually related in
some way to the woman's father. They are usually not related
to the present situation or the woman's own personality. They
simply ARE. The negative animus may also lead a woman into
destructive relationship with her husband or children. Von
Franz quotes the story of a woman who showed her a picture of
the woman's son who died by drowning at 27. The woman
commented that 'I prefer it this way: better than giving him
away to another woman.' Such hidden possessiveness and
domination can lead to awful situations in those related to
such a woman, making it difficult for children to become
independent, and husbands to become men. |
Good relationship with or
marrying the man: Shows the woman integrating her
own ability to be independent and capable in outwardly active
terms. This makes her more whole, balancing her 'female'
qualities. She would then be less dependent upon an external male
to feel whole. It also shows the woman meeting her experience of
her father in a healing way. This enables the woman to have a
realistic relationship with an actual man. It also brings a sense
of connectedness between her conscious self and what she senses as
the 'commercial' world. See: father below.
To be in conflict with the man,
or unable to make real physical and pleasurable contact with him:
Suggests difficulty in meeting what may have been a painful or
threatening experience of father or some other man. This can lead
to lack of ability to make clear judgements, and lack of
decisiveness in areas outside of feeling values. She is prone to
acceptance of collective or long held social norms without
question; family or national attitudes not applicable to present
situations; and 'reasoning' which actually arises out of emotions
connected to such family or social norms. Actual relations with
men will be difficult, or entered into simply as a duty. Emotional
or intimate merging is threatening because it brings the woman
close to the conflicts and pain connected with father. Sex may be
possible but not a close feeling union. See: man.
Useful questions are:
Am I still at odds with my internal male - if so what still
stands in the way of unity?
If I have found unity with my inner male what has this brought
into my life?
Is my form of reasoning really a form of intense emotional
conviction?
What are my dreams saying about how I can find a greater unity
with my male self? |